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Memories of my Godfather

Sometimes, when things were very serious—like during my mother’s long illness—my Nono would find a way to make everybody laugh. I distinctly remember a time when we were all gathered in the family room in the house where I grew up. We were talking about ordinary things (I think I was answering a question my Nona had asked me about how school was going), but the mood was dreary. Although I can’t say for sure when this happened, but I know my mother was still alive but not in the room, so she was likely in the hospital, which means I was between 9 and 13 years of age. In any case, quite suddenly and totally out of the blue, my Nono did a summersault off the couch. It seems impossible that this is a real memory, but I swear it happened. My sister and I burst out laughing. Nona was shocked and said, “Taki, what are you doing?” but then she started laughing too. He had a way of lightening things when they were too heavy. He had the best sense of humor of anyone I ever knew. He was almost ...

Diagnoses, Assessments, and Turning 18...oh my!

So, let me get this straight: S cannot stay by herself without getting on the internet and spending $100 she does not have or taking money out of my wallet and going to the store and getting, then eating, an entire box of Oreos. She can't get her homework done without someone sitting next to her. She has no idea how to function in most social situations. She would spend hours twirling around on pointe if she could. She's making progress in all of these areas--lots of progress, actually--but, bottom line, she's not going to be able to be on her own when she turns 18 in a month. Still, she needs a diagnosis other than her current diagnoses--math disability, PTSD and ADHD--to get any resources post-age-18. All right, not a problem. The school is going to do an evaluation, required every two years for any student receiving special education services. Only the "evaluation" includes two tests and an "interview" (questionnaire) that I fill out. Also, her specia...